DAY 20 - Value anyone who supports you with nothing to gain.

Today, I want to talk about a precious aspect of our lives that we often overlook: the value of genuine support. In our journey, we encounter many people. Some come into our lives for a reason, some for a season, and others for a lifetime. But it's those who support us with nothing to gain, who truly deserve our utmost appreciation and recognition.

Life is filled with ups and downs, moments of joy and times of struggle. During our darkest hours, the people who stand by us without any hidden agenda are the ones who shine the brightest. They don't support us for personal gain or recognition. They don't expect anything in return. Their support is rooted in love, loyalty, and a genuine desire to see us succeed.

Think about a time when you were facing a challenge. Perhaps you were dealing with a personal loss, navigating a career setback, or simply feeling overwhelmed by life's demands. Who was there to lift you up? Who offered a listening ear, a helping hand, or a comforting presence? These are the people who truly matter. They see us for who we are and believe in our potential, even when we might doubt ourselves.

In a world that often feels transactional, finding such selfless supporters can feel like discovering hidden treasures. Their kindness and encouragement are the bedrock upon which we can build our dreams and overcome our fears. They remind us that we are not alone, that we are valued, and that our struggles do not define us.

Consider the colleague who stays late to help you meet a deadline, not because they expect a favor in return, but because they care about your success. Think about the friend who listens to you vent about your day, offering empathy and understanding without judgment. Remember the family member who always seems to know when you need a little extra love and support. These acts of kindness might seem small, but their impact is profound.

So, how do we show our appreciation for these amazing individuals? Firstly, acknowledge them. Let them know how much their support means to you. A simple thank you, a heartfelt note, or even just a moment of recognition can go a long way. Make it a point to express your gratitude regularly, not just when you receive their support, but also when you reflect on your journey and recognize their unwavering presence.

Secondly, be there for them as they have been for you. Support is a two-way street, and fostering mutual trust and care strengthens the bond. Offer your help without waiting for them to ask. Be a proactive supporter, someone they can rely on in their moments of need. By reciprocating their kindness, you reinforce the foundation of your relationship and create a cycle of support that benefits both parties.

Thirdly, strive to be that person for others. Pay it forward by offering your support to someone who needs it. Be the friend who listens, the colleague who encourages, or the family member who stands by. In doing so, we create a ripple effect of kindness and support that can transform lives. Imagine a world where everyone feels valued and supported, where acts of kindness are the norm rather than the exception.

To reinforce this mindset, let’s embrace a few affirmations:

1. I am grateful for the genuine support in my life.
2. I recognize and cherish those who stand by me with no expectation in return.
3. I am committed to being a source of support and kindness to others.
4. I value the bonds of trust and loyalty in my relationships.
5. I acknowledge the impact of small acts of kindness.
6. I am surrounded by people who uplift and inspire me.
7. I attract authentic and supportive relationships.
8. I express my gratitude to those who support me freely and often.
9. I give and receive support with an open heart.
10. I trust in the strength of my connections with others.

In addition to these affirmations, here are some actionable tips to help you show appreciation and support for the genuine supporters in your life:

1. Express Gratitude Regularly: Take time to thank those who support you. A handwritten note, a heartfelt message, or even a simple "thank you" can make a big difference.
2. Spend Quality Time Together: Invest time in your relationships. Schedule regular catch-ups, coffee dates, or phone calls to stay connected.
3. Offer Help Without Being Asked: Anticipate the needs of your supporters and offer your help before they even ask for it.
4. Celebrate Their Achievements: Acknowledge and celebrate the successes and milestones of those who support you. This shows that you care about their journey as much as they care about yours.
5. Practice Active Listening: When someone is speaking to you, give them your full attention. Show empathy and understanding, and let them know you value their thoughts and feelings.
6. Share Your Resources: If you come across information, opportunities, or resources that could benefit your supporters, share them generously.
7. Be Dependable: Follow through on your commitments and be someone they can rely on, just as they are for you.
8. Show Appreciation Publicly: Give public recognition to your supporters in appropriate settings, such as team meetings, social media shoutouts, or family gatherings.
9. Encourage Their Dreams: Support their aspirations and offer encouragement as they pursue their goals.
10. Practice Random Acts of Kindness: Surprise your supporters with small, thoughtful gestures that show you care.

Remember, the people who support us with nothing to gain are rare and precious. They are our anchors in the storm, our cheerleaders in the race, and our confidants in times of need. Cherish them, value them, and never take them for granted.  As we go through life, let's make a conscious effort to recognize and honor the genuine supporters in our lives. Let's celebrate their selflessness and let them know just how much they mean to us. In doing so, we not only strengthen our bonds with them but also contribute to a culture of gratitude and support that can uplift us all.